"Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00fczerine bir hikaye yaz\u0131yorum. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 hi\u00e7 kimse bu zamana kadar bu \u015fekilde yazmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kad\u0131n farkl\u0131 bir d\u00fcnya, \u00fczerine saatlerce konu\u015fulur. " diyen Y\u0131ld\u0131r\u0131m, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ele\u015ftiri kabul etmedi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n
"KADINLAR ELE\u015eT\u0130R\u0130LEMEZ M\u0130?"<\/p>\n
"Samimi bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemem gerekirse, sadece \u00f6vg\u00fc bekleniyor. Ama sadece \u00f6vg\u00fc ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i de\u011fil. S\u0131rtlan erke\u011fi yazarken kad\u0131nlar \u00e7ok mutluydu. Ama kad\u0131nlarla ilgili ele\u015ftiri yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, "Hoca art\u0131k erkekleri savunuyor." diyen bir ekip olu\u015ftu. Bu \u015fekilde hi\u00e7bir \u015fey \u00e7\u00f6zemeyiz. Bir kad\u0131n s\u00fcrekli olarak problemli insanlar\u0131 se\u00e7ti\u011fi zaman, 'Bende ne hata var?' diye sormak zorunda. Bu insanlar\u0131 biz se\u00e7iyoruz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. Ben bunlar\u0131 y\u0131llarca erkeklerle ilgili s\u00f6yledim zaten. Ama belli bir kitle var ki b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn kad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00f6veyim istiyorlar."<\/p>\n
"ROL MODELLER\u0130M\u0130Z B\u0130Z\u0130 YANILTIYOR"<\/p>\n
– Kad\u0131nlar en \u00e7ok neyde yanl\u0131\u015f yap\u0131yor?<\/p>\n
Duygu y\u00f6netimimiz yok, rol modellerimiz yanl\u0131\u015f y\u00f6nlendiriyor. Anneler \u00f6zellikle, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f y\u00f6nlendiriyor. Bizim toplumda saplant\u0131 ve tak\u0131nt\u0131 \u00e7ok var. "Olmak zorunda, \u00e7ok emek verdim, b\u0131rakamam" \u015feklinde yakla\u015fanlar \u00e7ok var. D\u00fcrt\u00fcsel bir toplumuz. Aniden biriyle tan\u0131\u015f\u0131p hayat\u0131m\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131 diyebiliyoruz.<\/p>\n
Bir ba\u015fka problemimiz;…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0130li\u015fkiler \u00fczerine yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yorumlarla ve toplum analizleriyle dikkat \u00e7eken Yazar & Mentor Adil Y\u0131ld\u0131r\u0131m konu\u011fumuz oldu. Z ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bencil olduklar\u0131n\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":25865,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25866","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem","category-son-dakika"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25866","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=25866"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25866\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/25865"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=25866"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=25866"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eskigazeteci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=25866"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}